Visiting san jose weekend of march 15 – Las Vegas

I am visiting San Jose weekend of March 15 on business. I am married and closeted, so I use these business trips as an outlet for release. I would like to meet with someone, or a group, this weekend sometime, to chat over coffee with a like mind. Where are the good places? Meeting on these business trips really helps me deal with it. Let me know. 7176768755 just leave your name and number if there's no answer, and mention that you are interested in an appointment for the get together (GTG) in san jose the weekend of the 15th, and a callback number. Please be discreet, because my wife sometimes stumbles across my phone messages. BTW I am 57 yo male, red hair, medium to stocky build, square jaw, clean cut Engineer, I like german cars and computers.